You’re over and done with the whole courting and dating process. You’ve finally met the guy you’re sure you want to be with for the rest of your life. You have a great relationship. But the question is, how do you make sure he won’t leave you? Here are some things you must do so you won’t lose your man to cheating wives.
Never stop being interesting. How? Live your life the way you want to! Just because you’re committed to him doesn’t mean you should ignore other people in your life. Make sure that you still find the time to enjoy the life you’ve lived before you were with him. Be an independent woman. If you become dull, clingy and boring, he might lose interest quickly.
Even if he is already your boyfriend, don’t do the work. Men love to chase women. It’s in their DNA. Let him come to you when he needs you. Don’t pursue him for whatever reason. Drop him hints and clues that you want him to always make the first move.
Do little things for your man to show him that you definitely care for him. Sweet and thoughtful gestures like cooking his favorite dish, bringing him a cup of coffee, or giving him a nice back rub will show him that you know how to pay attention to his needs.
Dress nice to make him appreciate you, but don’t dress too provocatively to make him think you dress inappropriately. Don’t go for the mini skirt and the tube top. You can find other subtle ways to be attractive. Showing a little skin can already be good without being showing everything.
Avoid putting pressure on your man. Guys hate it when they feel pressured to do something. Don’t send him loads of text messages a day or don’t expect him to answer your one hundred calls. He’s a busy guy and you’re not the only thing he’s thinking about. Becoming too possessive of your guy can lead your relationship down an unhealthy road.
Don’t take crap from other people. If your guy is at fault, tell him and don’t tolerate what he’s done. If you tolerate his wrongdoing, he might repeat it again because he thinks you don’t mind.
Making a relationship last and not losing your guy can be a juggle. However, in the end, it might be worth it, fighting for your relationship.